Bible Discussion Thread

Hello, I have been treated very badly by someone. His name is David & he was very cruel to me. He has left me with a broken heart after 7yrs & he does not appreciate me as the good person that I really am. I believe God put him into my life for a reason as he had similar problems that I have but his were much worse & he could very a very mean person at times & especially when he was drinking as he was an alcoholic. I gave him all of me. I was very giving. Always giving him the best gifts that he would like on his birthday. Always trying to be there for him in the best way I could & then he suddenly started talking to another woman who was only using him the whole time. Although he still tried to call me, I was too angry to answer so we did not talk for a long time until recently. Now that has ended with her, he is already talking to another woman who I know is bad for him. She just lost her husband, but she started talking to David well before he died. Which makes me wonder if she ever cared anything about her husband at all. She seems to want David to automatically assume the role of a boyfriend & father figure to her son & has turned him against me out of her own jealousy. Now he is completely cruel to me. I cry inside every day wondering what I ever did so wrong. I am so very hurt by David & also Renee. I have seen quite a few nasty posts on her Facebook profile that I know were relating to me. I would like to request a prayer for justice in my situation & that David wakes up & realizes just how Renee really is & will finally apologize to me the way he should have long ago. I want to heal my heart & this has really been bringing me down so very much. Thanks so much in advance, take care & God Bless!!:-)

I reading your comment, although I don't know the whole things, I think I can pray for you.Sometimes I think why God allow this things happen, my brother told me maybe you experience you can help others.My English so bad. but I want to pray for you.

Dear Wendy , it doesn't sound to me as if this man is commited to you in a romantic way . Maybe he just sees you as a friend . I think maybe you need to try to put him out of your heart and move on . It's not easy I know , when you have invested so much of your time and energy into a relationship it can be very hard to let it go . You have to put yourself first because no one else will . You have to protect and preserve yourself . People come and go in and out of our lives , it's not a stable world that we live in and we cannot control the behaviour of others . We can however do our best to control ourselves with God's help . What have you learned from your relationship with this man ? Whatever it was , don't forget the lesson . Move on . Put more effort in your relationships with your God and your Saviour , build on that strong foundation , read your Bible , say your prayers and find a good church . Maybe in time God will bring the right man to you but don't be in a rush . Get closer to God and Jesus before you think of getting entangled romantically again . Life is change and we humans don't always like change . God and Jesus don't change . They are steadfast in their judgements and guidance and love and caring ways towards us , put yourself totally into their hands and wait patiently . You may end up without a partner but you will never ever be without a best friend .