My wife of 8+ years walked out on me in mid November 2023. There were no warning signs, and the night before, she kissed me goodnight, told me that she loved me. The next morning I woke up met her in the kitchen where she was making coffee and she then told me she wanted a divorce, I WAS SHOCKED AND STUNNED!!! She told me that I did nothing wrong and I am a Good Husband, She gave me " Bumper Sticker " excuses as why she wanted a divorce. " I'm not wife material" , " I don't want to be married to anyone " , " I want to go find my true destiny, my dream job, my true purpose " ,,, and the latest one that I heard was, " My love for you Wore Off ". I prayed for reconciliation, that did not happen. My Thanksgiving was spent alone and Ruined, Christmas as well. She refused to talk to me and on January 22nd our divorce was final and she said not one word to me. I am so hurt, angry, and very betrayed and lost....
Brother Jerrel,i am very very sorry my Brother.I was once married and it did not last.I was very deeply deeply hurt and ate my way through my grief.Please go to your Church brother and get some divorce care counseling.ASAP.I made very bad choices after my divorce brother and i am now paying for it with my health.I did not get the help i needed and it forever changed my life .I will pray for you Jerrel.I hope you will reach out to someone you trust like a Stephen Minister if your Church has that.God bless you my Brother. I have been were you are currently.never forget you are Gods precious Child,he will see you through this.
I am so sorry about this terrible situation your wife's decision has caused. I will certainly keep you in my prayers.
Now you know that she wasn't "wife material" (as she put it) for you because of how disrespectfully and unloving her actions involved in the announcing of wanting a divorce and in refusing to speak with you. You are in a very painful place. may God bring healing to your heart, mind, and soul.
My son's first wife left him abruptly without any hint and refused to even talk to him about anything. she abandoned him and the marriage. As found out by my, she celebrated her one year anniversary with her present boyfriend on the exact day she left my son. She was not "wife material' for my son, since she was in adultery prior to leaving him. That was 10 years ago after 18 months of marriage and 6 years of dating. It took my son quite a while to be willing to date again. But God brought Vivian to him a year and a half ago, they married in July. She is a believer, unlike the prior wife, very kind and thoughtful, just like I prayed to God for such a wife for him.
I pray that God will prepare you for the life you will now live without her. It is a very sad situation and I know that you are hurting so much and most likely feel that she has stolen from you the life and future that you had with her, which she has.
What a harsh and selfish decision she has made concerning you.
But I know that God is with you, in you , and beside you as you walk forward in this life He has blessed you with. draw near to Him and trust Him no matter how you feel. Rely on Him for love, support, and peace.
May the piece and the strength of our savior be with you.
Johnny
I am so sorry about this terrible situation your wife's decision has caused. I will certainly keep you in my prayers.
Now you know that she wasn't "wife material" (as she put it) for you because of how disrespectfully and unloving her actions involved in the announcing of wanting a divorce and in refusing to speak with you. You are in a very painful place. may God bring healing to your heart, mind, and soul.
My son's first wife left him abruptly without any hint and refused to even talk to him about anything. she abandoned him and the marriage. As found out by my, she celebrated her one year anniversary with her present boyfriend on the exact day she left my son. She was not "wife material' for my son, since she was in adultery prior to leaving him. That was 10 years ago after 18 months of marriage and 6 years of dating. It took my son quite a while to be willing to date again. But God brought Vivian to him a year and a half ago, they married in July. She is a believer, unlike the prior wife, very kind and thoughtful, just like I prayed to God for such a wife for him.
I pray that God will prepare you for the life you will now live without her. It is a very sad situation and I know that you are hurting so much and most likely feel that she has stolen from you the life and future that you had with her, which she has.
What a harsh and selfish decision she has made concerning you.
But I know that God is with you, in you , and beside you as you walk forward in this life He has blessed you with. draw near to Him and trust Him no matter how you feel. Rely on Him for love, support, and peace.
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