Bible Discussion Thread

Dear Pastor

My girlfriend Christian broke up on Wednesday this week .I have been paying her rent for over

a year I don't ever stay over or even be allowed

up into her second floor apt .I Love her .well anyhow I had a doctors appointment on Wednesday so she said after your appointment can I come and take her do some shopping and I said sure I'll come right over well when I got to her house after the appointment she was getting out of some guys car and run into the house while I'm watching her so I texted her what's going on she said she's talking to Cyf and I asked her what's really going on and she got a attitude and told me to leave because her friend was taking her somewhere and if I come around her house she will call the cops .So I asked her if you want if you want me to leave you alone just say you don't wanna be bothered,And she said she doesn't want to be bothered and please leave .so I left I really love her . I have blocked

her number and haven't looked for her or anything.please help me because I miss her .

Dear William, I am so sorry that your girlfriend has treated you this way and thus ended your relationship. My sense is that it is now dead since she so easily has found another man. My suggestion to you is to be prayerful and seek God for wisdom, healing as you grieve this loss, and wait patiently for what God wants to do, not what you want to do. I will pray for you, William, since I know how hard this is to go through.

Dear Heavenly Father, how much William is hurting. We ask You in the name of Jesus to help him through this loss of the woman he loves, of the relationship that is ended, and the future that he thought he would have with here completely destroyed. I pray that You will comfort and lead William, keeping his heart stayed on You and give him the strength to really trust in You for what his future may hold. I know that You know when it would be best for You to bring the best and right woman into his life. This one he loved is not that woman, as far as I can tell since she mistreated him and the love they shared so terribly. Amen.

I am very sorry for your situation . When a person doesn't treat us very nice , it often means that they don't like or respect us . It seems that you have been very nice to her and she has not appreciated you very much . Maybe it's time you left her to get on with her life and you get on with yours . Try to find a girl who appreciates you , you , for who you are , not what you can do for her . There are many people out there who don't seem to mind using and abusing others for their own benefit , try to identify this kind of person before getting into a relationship with them , once you recognise the signs then move away from them . Do you read the Bible ? Say your prayers ? Attend a church ? Give thanks to God for His blessings towards you , ask Him to give you discernment when dealing with people , read your Bible and find a decent church . Maybe there you would find a nice lady who will appreciate you and whom you can give your love to .